Yup.. heard another breakup story today... 7 yrs relationship.. gone juz like that.. wat's wrong with the guys nowadays? Why cant they appreciate and cherish wat they have? Why are they fickle-minded? After wat i heard today, it juz further re-affirms and proves the point that my mentality has been right all along. Only put in 30% of ur feelings in each relationship.. in this way, u will never get hurt. I can only sympathize with my frens each time they get hurt by someone they love, and not empathize... I will never understand the pain that they feel and have to go thru because i've never fallen so deeply in love with any guy before.. This sets me wondering, shld i open myself to love? Maybe i shld take away the "wall" and juz love. But then again, i'm afraid i'll be hurt... "It's better have loved and lost.." Is it true? Most often then not, ppl who have been hurt in a relationship will say they'd rather not have loved... As for myself, i believe wat's done is done. Since there's nothin we can do about it, we shld juz look ahead, be more optimistic and happiness will definitely be within reach. Then again, i guess only when i've really loved and lost will i be able to empathize and understand wat heartbreak is all about..
To digress from this depressing topic, i shall recommend everyone a particular bottle of red wine. haha~ yes, totally outta point. JEWISH RED WINE!! It's delicious!!! If I'm kind, i'll bring back a bottle or two for my frens in sg 2 try... it's freaking sweet!! Manischewitz Cream red concord.. gosh... i'm gonna try the white wine next wk...